Question: On a previous question I did, it was addressed to me that I could get my own answers instead of asking through here the validity of what I received on my own. On another answer, it was said to me that a system I somehow generated to receive answers is not a good way to receive them, so I dismissed it. Something quite hard and difficult to explain then happened to me that I am not quite sure I can comment on what has left me with what I can equate to signs of trauma. It has damaged my worth and made me evaluate and acknowledge what a person deserves and what a person causes as a return of karma, and it is quite difficult to find balance. In this unbalanced state it has been quite challenging to get some answers, and the system I generated has not stopped, it is almost autonomous and is causing me a lot of stress. I do not know how to stop it.
You have said that if the messenger is an ant, heed it, and it seems there are too many ants in my life. At the background of all this there is something that always concerned me, the channel of communication between the higher self and the lower self. To be honest, at times I have come to be frustrated on how come there is not a better way to relate in conversation among the two so it all would be easier. Isn’t that what has the world being as astray as it is? The reading of what guides the higher self is providing. This might be my individual scenario, and I am caught in a fog, so my main question is what is the best way to enter in communication with my higher self and is not my higher self behind the system you said is not a good way to get answers, so then I should get rid of it for good. On what proportion should the will of the higher self be on the lower self to conduct a successful path all the time? Was the will of the higher self all the time on Jesus, or is it a progressive thing? Please add whatever may help me in these challenging times.
Answer from the Ascended Master Mother Mary through Kim Michaels. This answer was given during the 2025 Korean Conference.
You can start by making use of the book about connecting to your spiritual teachers, which also talks about connecting to your higher self. That gives you some practical tools to work with. You can also use the books on healing your spiritual trauma, because when you talk about the lack of communication between the higher self and the lower self, well, it is because there is interference from the subconscious selves due to past trauma.
What the fallen beings want to achieve for all avatars who have come to earth is precisely this, that your Conscious You is separated from your I AM Presence, distrusts the I AM Presence and therefore, is not open to guidance from the I AM Presence or the ascended masters.
The key word in your question is that you have developed a system. That precisely is the problem. When you have, due to past life trauma, come to distrust or not feel you have a clear connection to your I AM Presence, then you can develop this desire that we see in many spiritual people for some kind of supposedly infallible system. This you see outplayed in many people who use forms of divination, from tarot cards to muscle testing to this or that, where they seek to get these supposedly infallible answers. But you need to recognize here that there is no such thing as getting infallible answers. And the desire for infallible answers comes from the ego as we have explained, even so far at this conference. It always wants something ultimate, something infallible.
But you see, you have to adjust your expectations here. There is no such thing as infallible answers. There is no such thing as your Conscious You going through some kind of process and now you have clear and infallible communication from your I AM Presence telling you what to do and what not to do. As we have explained so many times, there is free will at the level of the I AM Presence and there is free will at the level of the Conscious You. It is not the purpose of the spiritual path that the Conscious You becomes a slave of the I AM Presence, a marionette, a robot. You still have to make decisions. But because of an unresolved trauma from the past, many people are unwilling to make decisions. That is why they want to develop a system that gives them infallible answers. You need to adjust your expectations and realize that your I AM Presence can give you a frame of reference, but you still have to make your decisions at the level of the Conscious You. And that, in order to make the best possible decisions, you have to be willing to resolve psychology.
And unfortunately, we see in many spiritual students, those who go into wanting this system or this form of divination that can give them infallible answers, that they are not the most willing to look at their psychology. Whenever you have trouble connecting to your I AM Presence, there is really only one answer: unresolved psychology.
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