Question: Dear Mother Mary, can you reveal the secret of the purpose of virginity in girls in a Christian religion, in which they attach great importance to this, and impose many prohibitions and rules on girls from childhood, and why they are seduced by men, pushing for sexual intercourse before marriage?
Answer from the Ascended Master Mother Mary through Kim Michaels. This answer was given during the 2023 Easter Webinar
Well, a child, depending on its past lives, but most children are born with a certain grace, a certain innocence. In other words, you could say that some of your past, karma, misqualified energy, momentum from past lives is held back, so you have an opportunity in childhood to create a new approach to life in this embodiment. From this perspective, you can say that many children start out life having a certain innocence and a certain pure energy.
Not all children do, depending on their past lifetimes, and how complicated and wounded their psychology is, but most children do. This means what? Well, it means that they have a certain energy, a certain spiritual light, and as you grow up, there are various things that can make you lose this energy, lose this innocence. One of them is sexual intercourse—it does not mean you have to lose it in sexual intercourse, but it is one of the things that can take it away from you. Another is alcohol, drugs, tobacco, violence, and many other things.
You have a concept that has developed over a very long period of time among fallen beings in embodiment, that having sex with children or young adults who are still virgins can give you more light. And the fallen beings, of course, are cut off from the light from their I AM Presence, so they have to take it horizontally from somebody in the world. They seek this out, having either intercourse with children, but even among children, they seek out virgins because the first time the fallen being can steal more light. Now, I am not here by saying that you will automatically lose all of your childhood innocence the first time you have sex, but if you have sex the first time with a fallen being, then you will likely lose most of it. If you are having sex with a person who is not a fallen being, it will not be the same dynamic. But the fallen beings are experts at extracting energy from people and thus, for a child to have its first sexual encounter with a fallen being does mean the loss of most, if not all of the innocence, the energy that it had.
What the fallen beings have done throughout the ages is that they have built various, you might say, hidden ideologies aimed at giving them access to this light by having sexual intercourse with children or young adults, especially with virgins. And they have attempted to use various outer means to propagate this, to justify it and so forth. You can ask yourself why Catholic priests have been trapped in this spiral of the sexual abuse of children, and it comes from the fallen beings and their extraction of energy. This is not to say that all Catholic priests who abuse children are fallen beings, but they are certainly partially taken over by fallen beings who are stealing energy from the priest as they are stealing energy from the children.
You have this concept going back throughout many religions in history of this focus on virgins. Now you could say that one side of it could be the desire to protect children from having sexual intercourse too early or even having it with fallen beings. There can be a benign aspect of it that has been lost in many of the modern secular democracies where they think that there is even debate that children at any age should be free to have sex if they want, which, of course, is a pedophile’s dream.
You can see that some of these traditional focus on this is for the protection of children, but there is also a component here of putting extra emphasis on maintaining your virginity longer so that the fallen beings can have an opportunity to take it. And it is a mixture of both benign and not so benign, but what we can say is that it can be damaging to a child to have sex too early. It depends a little bit on the partner. If there are two young children that have sex in their teenage years, then it does not necessarily have to be a devastating loss if they are both in a benign state of consciousness. There can still be value in maintaining your virginity longer so that you, for example, lose your virginity to the first person who is a serious partner in a serious relationship instead of looking at this in the casual way that many people do. And certainly, I would say that sex before the teenage years is not healthy for anyone.
The fallen beings are very subtle and you have in several of these old religions, Christianity, Judaism, Islam, this very male-dominated society—this patriarchal society. The fallen beings have, as we have explained many times, used this because men are easier to control than women for the fallen beings. And this has created this sense of: “Women are there to serve for the sexual gratification of men and the wives should always give sex to her husband when he wants it and so forth.” And this again goes back to the fallen beings who, in any society, when their in embodiment, want to set themselves up so they can do whatever they want and it is somehow justified and accepted in society. And this is what you need to see through in any situation in society whether it is a religion or something else, a political system, whatever you have.
You can say that in many situations there is a benign aspect of protecting people but the fallen beings will always try to manipulate it for their own ends so that they can abuse it and they can get away with it whereas the broad population cannot.
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