The balanced approach to sex 

Question: How can I replace the unbalanced and objectified image of women and sex with a constructive and non-objectified image of women or sex in my four lower bodies? 

Kim: It’s also a very long explanation that I’m not going to read but basically, what it concerns is that if you have these very strong images, in your mind of perverted sex, that prevent you from having a more natural attitude to sex. What do you do?


 Answer from the Ascended Master Jesus through Kim Michaels. This answer was given during the 2020 Webinar – Increasing Your Christ Discernment.

Well, sexual activity is certainly one of the tools that the fallen beings have used to manipulate people, confuse people, and create all kinds of manipulation. It’s clear that one of the major ways they have done this is by perverting sex and sexual activity into something that is very low, very dirty, very base. They have, over time, used these perverted sexual practices or images to even project into people’s consciousness these distorted images. There are demons and beasts in the collective consciousness who are projecting these images.

Now, if you have this in your consciousness, it’s because you have some kind of vulnerability, some kind of opening, that maybe goes back to past lives where you were somehow forced or pulled into participating in such activities. You need to use the tools we have given to uncover these selves and resolve the self and the belief you have about sex and why you feel so bad about the perverted aspects of sex that you cannot even focus on a more relaxed or natural expression of sexual activity.

In the end, there needs to come this decision where you simply decide that anything on earth can be and has been perverted by the fallen beings. There is no activity on earth that you can participate in, that cannot be perverted. So literally, if you allow the perversions of the fallen beings to stop you from participating in a particular activity, there is nothing you can do. You can withdraw into a secluded room and wait until you starve to death because you can’t even eat without this being perverted by the fallen beings. You simply need to look at this and say, “Well, sex is just another human activity. It’s something you can do with the physical body, and there is nothing inherently wrong or unclear or impure about it. So, I need to look at what kind of selves I have created that makes me believe that sex is dirty, and that I shouldn’t participate in it.” And so forth and so on.

You realize here that the issue or the topic of this conference is Christ discernment. When you attain Christ discernment, you can look at sexual activity and say: ” Well, the perversions are the perversions. This is not something I’m going to put my attention on, but it doesn’t mean that I can’t have a relaxed relationship to sex and enjoy it. And if I’m married, for example, that I can’t fulfill my spouse’s sexual desires and even enjoy doing so”. Again, we have said before that there is a very long tradition that spiritual people feel that sex is wrong and anti-spiritual, and you shouldn’t engage in it. This is also a projection of the fallen beings, its also some separate selves, some collective beasts in the collective consciousness, and you can resolve this as well. I’m not saying that this means that a spiritual person should have sex or should live in a relationship, but you should be able to do it without having any kind of reactionary patterns or negative feelings about it.

Basically, we can say that as you reach the higher levels of Christhood, it doesn’t mean you participate in any human activity, but there are many human activities you participate in and there is no issue with it. You are completely neutral about it. You’re not pulled in this or that direction by it, and you have no overlay of “should or shouldn’t”, or whether it’s wrong or not wrong, and this entire evaluation based on the value judgment. You can, for example, participate in social activities with other people, without evaluating whether this is spiritual or not spiritual, whether these people are spiritual or non-spiritual, and so forth, and so on. There’s nothing wrong with enjoying life on earth when you are participating in it. It doesn’t mean that it takes up your attention and it pulls you away from the spiritual path. It’s just part of life. If you are in a social setting, with family members, for example, and eating a meal, well, why not enjoy the meal? Why do you have to sit there as a spiritual person and evaluate, “Oh, should I be eating meat? Should I be taking another piece of steak? Should I be doing this should I be doing that?” This fades away when you reach the higher levels of Christhood.

 

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