Set yourself and your child free

Question: What can a mother do to help a son that she senses is a fallen being? What can she learn from that and how can she help her son, that she as a mother loves?


Answer from the Ascended Master Mother Mary through Kim Michaels. This answer was given at the 2020 Webinar – Being the Divine Mother.

Well, first of all, you can realize that if you are a spiritual person, whether an ascended master student or another kind of spiritual person, you have volunteered to give birth to that son, whether he is a fallen being or not, he is not one of the most close-minded fallen beings or you would not have given birth to him. So, that means he has a potential to grow, and that means that he has the same potential as everyone else for overcoming his psychology, but he’s likely to have a more difficult psychology than most other people.

What can you do to help him? Well, you can work first on resolving your own psychology as much as possible, then you can encourage him and try to help him to also work on his psychology and realize that psychology is the main limiting factor for all human beings. You can of course, make the calls to help him do this as well and use the tools we have given. Try to encourage him to use these tools.

If he will not make use of this, then the best thing you can do is to realize that there comes a point for all parents where you must set your children free and allow them to live their own lives, whatever that means. Even if you don’t approve of it, even if they harm themselves. There comes a point as a parent, where your children are adults and you need to set them free to live their own lives. This also means you are in a sense setting yourself free so you can say: “Given that my child is now living his own life, how do I now want to live my life”? And you can then allow yourself to take your life in a new direction. It doesn’t mean you can have no contact with your son depending on the nature of the relationship. But you can set him free and you can set yourself free.

 

Copyright © 2020 Kim Michaels