Question: Is it possible after this incarnation to delay reincarnating for as long as possible until there are parents ready for me who are students of the ascended masters, who have already made significant progress in their financial situation and personal growth? I no longer want to be born into a poor family with psychological issues, who are uninterested in spirituality, live in poverty, and carry deep emotional wounds.
What can I do to make this happen? I do not know how much longer I can keep living like this. I am exhausted from constant hunger and working like a slave at a regular job. I want to wait for better conditions in my next incarnation. How long can a soul wait for the right moment to be born again after death?
Answer from the Ascended Master Mother Mary through Kim Michaels. This answer was given during the 2025 Ukraine Webinar.
You need to ask yourself a simple question here: “Am I willing to make use of the opportunities I have in this embodiment, or am I constantly dreaming of something else, whether it be in this lifetime or in a future lifetime?” The conditions you have in this embodiment are in large part a product of the karma and the unresolved psychology you have from past lifetimes. That is why you magnetize yourself to the situation you were born in in this lifetime. It is not realistic to dream that this can only become better in another lifetime and that you need to wait long enough and basically give up on this lifetime.
There is only one way to improve your next lifetime. That is to make use of the opportunity you have in this lifetime, multiply the talents you have been given, and seek to resolve the psychology that you have not resolved. If you go out of embodiment now, you will carry your psychology with you. No matter how long you wait, you will not come into your next lifetime in better conditions if you have not resolved the psychology. If you are an ascended master student, then use our teachings to resolve psychology. It is not realistic to think that things can only be better in your next lifetime. That is giving up on this lifetime, and that is not multiplying the talents.
If you are willing to look at yourself, your general attitude to life, use the tools we have given, shift your attitude, then your outer situation will improve also. But, as we have said many times, the change in the psychology must come first, and then the physical conditions can follow.
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