How to transcend sexual desires 

Question: Why is it so hard to overcome all sexual desires? I notice that there is a group of spiritual people that doesn’t feel it is in their divine plan to have a spouse. But on the other hand they find it hard to transcend sexual desires. What does one need to overcome in order to transcend human sexuality without forcing oneself by adopting an ascetic lifestyle out of a relative standard of good and evil?

Answer from the Ascended Master Mother Mary through Kim Michaels. This answer was given during the 2021 Webinar for Russia – Overcoming the consciousness of Superiority and the Sense of Being Unwhole, Traumatized and Focused Outside Oneself.

It is hard to overcome human sexuality because there are demons and entities that are constantly impinging on people’s desire bodies and base chakras to get them to go into this state of an insatiable sexual desire. The fallen beings have made an enormous effort to inflate people’s sexual desires beyond what is natural.

As a spiritual student you need to protect yourself from the influence of these lower beings, which you can do by making the calls for protection, for cutting you free—to Astrea to clear your base chakra and desire body. But you also need to make certain decisions. And it is not so much a matter of making this decision with the outer mind. This is what was advocated in previous dispensations and many religious and spiritual movements that promote an ascetic lifestyle. But this is because they did not have the teaching about the separate selves  and how to dissolve them.

You need to recognize that sexual desire has been used to manipulate people for a very, very long time. In fact , ever since the fallen beings came to this planet. It is very difficult to live on this planet, without in past lives having created various selves relating to sex and sexuality.

If you really want to be free of this manipulation through sexual desires it is a topic that gives the prince of this world an inroad into your consciousness and allows the demons and dark forces to pull on your chakras and desire body. This also requires a deliberate decision not to engage in watching pornography or even thinking about sex, which you can do more easily when you have resolved these selves that I am talking about. So naturally this is what you can do to come to a point where you are not a slave of your sexual desires.

Now you may still have sexual desires at a manageable level that does not steal your attention and become an obsessive compulsive addiction. And it is of course possible to have sexual relations. But as we said before, having sexual relations with different partners or a one nightstand will deplete your energy and it will not contribute to your spiritual growth.

So what other option is there than to have a more steady sexual partner and how is that possible without having a more committed relationship? So you need to evaluate what you want to do with your life, how you want to live your life and then take measures that are balanced and do not cause your energies to go into these patterns that become addictive or obsessive compulsive.


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