Question: I have a question of how to deal with this fear of abandonment, that is triggered by a close relationship leaving in anger – causing panic and severe anxiety.
Answer from the Ascended Master Mother Mary through Kim Michaels. This answer was given during the 2023 Kazakhstan Conference.
Well, I do not want to sound like a broken record, but as in many other situations, the first step to take is to free yourself from this panic, this sense of panic.
And that is diligent calls to Archangel Michael and Astrea, because anytime you go into a state of panic, it is because your mind has been invaded by these collective beasts that are seeking to overpower you or that are overpowering you. You need to, as they say in first aid, stop the accident. But then, of course, you need to look at this fear of abandonment. And this is something that is a very, very deep issue for many spiritual people. It can be partly caused by trauma from a past life because the fallen beings are good at manipulating you into a situation where you feel like you have been left alone, you have been an outcast in society, you have been rejected by your community, your family, your country, whatever. Many of you have been put in situations like this in past lives. But really, if you trace it even further back, it comes from going into duality, going into the illusion of separation where some people develop this sense that they have been abandoned by their higher self or been abandoned by God.
There are also some avatars who, after they came to earth and were exposed to their birth trauma, they felt abandoned by the ascended masters because they thought we would be there to protect them. And this was because people did not realize the nature of the physical octave and how free will must be allowed to outplay itself in a physical octave. It was not that you had not been told because you had been told this before you came, but you have not fully grasped how difficult of a planet this is and how you will be alone because the ascended masters cannot step into the physical because of the density of the collective consciousness.
These are some things that can take longer to resolve, but you can use the method I have given in Healing Your Spiritual Traumas to go back into the past, get in touch with this trauma, and resolve it. And over time, you can resolve it. It might take time, but also realize here that if you have this issue, this fear of abandonment, it could very well go back to your first embodiment on earth. You cannot expect that this is going to be resolved in five minutes.
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