Question: I am a mother of two sons. My husband passed away in an accident at work a few years ago. I have been working alone and proceeding with a trial related to my husband’s death and almost everything was completed in March of this year. The children will have to go to college. My deceased husband seems to have been connected to me since the accident. I have no one to rely on and I am doing well on my own. I want to continue to be with my deceased husband. I wonder if this is my obsession with him or if my family members are avatars. I want to hear advice from Mother Mary or Jesus about the direction I should take in the future. Also, is there a way for me to go spiritually instead of decrees in my busy daily life?
Answer from the Ascended Master Mother Mary through Kim Michaels. This answer was given during the 2025 Korea Conference.
Well, as we have said many times, we will not tell people what to do with their lives from an outer source. We will work with people individually to give you intuitive insights. But this, in order to receive them, requires a certain resolution of psychology. What I will comment on here is your desire to stay with your deceased husband. This is not a constructive desire for your spiritual growth. Your husband is out of embodiment. He needs to move on to the right level where he can receive help and instructions to heal before his next embodiment. You need to let him do this instead of trying to hold on to him. When you seek to hold on to a deceased family member, one of two things will happen. You can prevent the family member from moving on or the family member moves on because that is what they want to do and you attract another discarnate or even a lower entity that you mistake for your deceased family member. Then you start creating an energetic tie to this being which has a lower level of consciousness. You need to let your deceased husband go. You need to let yourself go from any attachment to him. That is how you can take your spiritual growth to a higher level.
Is there a way to grow instead of decrees in your busy daily life? Well, give a few minutes of decrees, even the short decrees that have been used at this conference, the refrain of the decrees. Pick two or three that appeal to you and give them as many times as you have time for. You should have time to give at least three of these short decrees nine times each. That will only take a few minutes. Otherwise, the fastest way to go is, of course, resolution of psychology, but if you are very busy, that may not be a practical possibility for you.
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