Question: The masters have said those who are gay can have an imbalance as a hatred of the opposite sex, feminine or masculine. The masters have also said the last thing we learn before the ascension is that the physical is not an enemy of the spiritual. My question is for those with an imbalance of the hatred of women or the feminine. Does this translate as a particular difficulty to see the Mother earth, the Divine Feminine, as not a hindrance to the path?
Answer from the Ascended Master Mother Mary through Kim Michaels. This answer was given during the 2025 USA Conference.
I am not sure where you are taking this idea that the last thing you learn before the ascension is that the physical is not an enemy of the spiritual. This is something you can begin to learn as soon as you reach the 48th level of consciousness and begin to connect to something outside your own mind. And you learn it more and more as you go towards the 96th level. And at the 96th level, you stop seeing the world as an enemy of your spiritual growth, you see it as a tool to enhance that growth. It is true that people can over many lifetimes of embodying in a male or female body, develop various imbalances. And if you have this imbalanced view of the feminine, as in the female body, then it is, of course, much more difficult for you to open yourself up to connecting to the Divine Feminine, to Mother Earth, to the material world.
But be careful here, because it is not just a hatred of the feminine that separates you from the physical world. It is also a hatred of the masculine, because both male and female bodies are an expression of the matter world, the Mother realm. There are also those who are imbalanced towards the masculine side who can have hatred of the mother. And it really comes from the fact that you have experienced suffering, you have experienced consequences in past lives that you projected upon the Mother realm, which is not an uncommon scenario, that people feel that because it is their physical bodies that, for example, gives them pain, then they dislike the Mother realm, because they feel it is the Mother realm who is punishing them. And many people feel that, oh, they should be able to get away with doing whatever they want in the Mother realm without these physical consequences and the pain. It really is just a matter of the separate selves. It is not a matter of whether you are gay or not.
There are many heterosexual people that have hatred of the mother, both men and women. It simply is that when you become unbalanced in your mind, when you become unwilling to take responsibility for yourself, and that your outer situation is a reflection of your inner situation, you are projecting that it is causes outside yourself that are causing your suffering. And that is the Mother realm that gives you the physical suffering, even the emotional and mental suffering of other people often, or your physical body. You project upon this, and therefore, you can have a certain animosity, even hatred of the Mother realm as you see it. But it is really a hatred of the consequences of your own choices. It is just that when you do not see that the Mother realm reflects back to you what your mind is projecting out subconsciously, then you feel stuck, you feel that you cannot avoid the suffering that the Mother realm is putting on you because you are not willing to look at yourself, the beam in your own eye, and change that.
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