Question: How does anyone realize that their divine plan includes the need to have a child? Is it essential for all women to become biological mothers, or is it possible to adopt a child if there is such an impulse and there is a fear of pregnancy and childbirth? Can fears about childbirth be from past lives if there were some disharmonious situations related to it?
Answer from the Ascended Master Mother Mary through Kim Michaels. This answer was given during the 2024 New Year webinar.
Well, the only way to really become aware that your divine plan includes having a child is intuitively. You come to a point where you just know it, you just sense it from within, that this is the natural step for you. It is not a decision you make with the outer mind. Now, for many women, you have grown up in a society where you have been programmed, brainwashed from a small child that you should be a mother, you should have children. It is just what you do when you are a woman. In order to really have good intuition about what is in your divine plan, you need to become aware of this and step away from it and let go of these selves that have been created and that you have taken on from your culture.
You can be neutral. “Is it in my divine plan or is it not?” Certainly, it is not in all women’s divine plan, especially in this age, as we have said before. You take the book about women, liberating women, and you will see that we talk about it there, that not every woman has it in their divine plan to have children because they want to accomplish something in society. Then, concerning the question of whether you can have a fear of childbirth, and therefore, should adopt, well, certainly you can adopt instead of having children. But you could also take the approach that: “If I have a fear of childbirth, it comes from a separate self and I can resolve that separate self.” Naturally, many, many women have experienced, in past lives, difficulties with childbirth. Just look at even today, how there are many areas of the world where you do not have the kind of safety system and medical help that you have in the more developed countries, where it can be very dangerous and very difficult to have children. Many women experience dying during childbirth or giving birth to a stillborn child in past lives, and therefore, they come into this lifetime with that fear.
But again, what you need to do there is look at this, transmute the energy, resolve the separate self so you can again be neutral and see is it in your divine plan to have a child or not, because the last thing you want to do is to have a fear from a past life to prevent you from fulfilling your divine plan in this life.
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