Question: While working with the third-ray book, I realized that love relationships are a great tool for spiritual growth and identifying problems in personal psychology. But I have not had such relationships in this lifetime, even though I am no longer young. It seems to me that I have not included them in my divine plan. Can I change my divine plan during the embodiment and include this kind of relationship or will I have to wait for the next incarnation?
Answer from the Ascended Master Mother Mary through Kim Michaels. This answer was given during the 2024 New Year webinar
Well, naturally, you can change your divine plan. You have free will and you have a right to go in a different direction. But you also need to be aware that just because you have not, up until a certain age, had love relationships does not mean it is not part of your divine plan. Is it a matter of you coming to realize that you want to change your divine plan or is it a matter of this is the time when you become aware that love relationships are part of your divine plan? Of course, you can change your divine plan, but it is also a matter of tuning into your divine plan and maybe it has not been time for you to engage in a love relationship. However, love relationships are, of course, not the only relationships. Even if you have not had a love relationship, you surely had other relationships. And all relationships can, of course, be a great tool for spiritual growth because they bring out reactions in you and your opportunity is to see: “Why am I reacting this way to other people in general or to a specific person? What is it in me that causes the reaction?”
And this is, of course, the hallmark of a spiritual student is that instead of saying: “You did this to me, you made me feel this way”, you are saying: “What is it in me that is causing the reaction and do I want to continue having that reaction or do I want to transcend the reaction and be free of it?”
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