Why God created in-Laws

TOPICS: Treating family worse than you treat strangers - changing a relationship by turning the other cheek - balancing all karma -

Question: Why oh why did God create in-laws???


Answer from ascended master Jesus through Kim Michaels:


Answer A: Because if married life was too comfortable, you might not make an effort to come home to his kingdom.

Answer B: God didn't create in-laws—you did. Before you got married, they were strangers, and you probably treated each other with the same courtesy that you extend to all strangers.

Now, both you and your in-laws face the age-old choice of whether to let your closeness cause you to treat each other worse than you would treat a stranger. A choice also faced by all married couples.

The good news is that you can change the situation, even if your in-laws refuse to change. Take note of the old saying that it takes two to tango—meaning that if one person refuses to struggle, the conflict will be dissipated. That is why I told people to turn the other cheek.

If you will consistently turn the other cheek and respond with love no matter what your in-laws do, one of three things will happen:

  • Their attitude and behavior toward you will change.
  • You will find yourself no longer in their company.
  • You will find that nothing they do will bother you any more.

It is, of course, also possible that you have karma with your in-laws. In fact, in any karmic relationship the karma usually goes beyond your spouse, as groups of people have karma and keep reincarnating together. To break free of such a relationship, do three things:

  • • Seek to learn the lesson you need to learn by seeing what it is in your psychology that causes you to have negative feelings towards your in-laws.
  • • Work towards forgiving the unconditionally, as this is the key to setting yourself free.
  • • Use the decrees and invocations to consume the energy behind your karmic relationship and also to resolve psychological wounds.





Copyright © 2004 by Kim Michaels

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Conference update USA and Estonia


The hotel for the American conference has changed.

We are once again having a conference in Estonia in late November and early December.

For mor einformation on both conferences, click here.

Kazakstan sound files, 2018


I just got home from our very joyful and well-organized conference in Kazakstan and want to express my deep appreciation for the people who organized it and to all who participated.

I have put the sound files of the dictations, questions and answers and one hour-lomg chanting session on the subscriber website.

The files are in a folder named KAZAKSTAN 2018.



Dictations from Estonia conference


I have (at last) proofread and posted all of the dictations from the conference in Estonia in December.


You can find a list of them on this page.



Holland 2018 sound files


The sound files from our very profound Holland conference are now on the subscriber's site.


The files are in a folder named HollandConference2018DivPlan.



NEW BOOK about spiritual traumas


I have published a new book with dictations and invocations about healing your cosmic birth trauma.

I am very excited about this book, partly because it has been underway for two years. The first dictations were given in Holland 2016 but the last dictations were not given until Estonia 2018. We also had to wait for the book My Lives with Lucifer, Satan, Hitler and Jesus to be published as the two books form a symbiosis for healing our original traumas.

I have personally felt great healing from the material in these two books and have overcome some things that nothing else has really been able to resolve. So I hope you will also get healing from these books.

There is a print edition, ebook and the invocations are available as sound files.

More information.


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