Why God created in-Laws

TOPICS: Treating family worse than you treat strangers - changing a relationship by turning the other cheek - balancing all karma -

Question: Why oh why did God create in-laws???


Answer from ascended master Jesus through Kim Michaels:


Answer A: Because if married life was too comfortable, you might not make an effort to come home to his kingdom.

Answer B: God didn't create in-laws—you did. Before you got married, they were strangers, and you probably treated each other with the same courtesy that you extend to all strangers.

Now, both you and your in-laws face the age-old choice of whether to let your closeness cause you to treat each other worse than you would treat a stranger. A choice also faced by all married couples.

The good news is that you can change the situation, even if your in-laws refuse to change. Take note of the old saying that it takes two to tango—meaning that if one person refuses to struggle, the conflict will be dissipated. That is why I told people to turn the other cheek.

If you will consistently turn the other cheek and respond with love no matter what your in-laws do, one of three things will happen:

  • Their attitude and behavior toward you will change.
  • You will find yourself no longer in their company.
  • You will find that nothing they do will bother you any more.

It is, of course, also possible that you have karma with your in-laws. In fact, in any karmic relationship the karma usually goes beyond your spouse, as groups of people have karma and keep reincarnating together. To break free of such a relationship, do three things:

  • • Seek to learn the lesson you need to learn by seeing what it is in your psychology that causes you to have negative feelings towards your in-laws.
  • • Work towards forgiving the unconditionally, as this is the key to setting yourself free.
  • • Use the decrees and invocations to consume the energy behind your karmic relationship and also to resolve psychological wounds.





Copyright © 2004 by Kim Michaels

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Reminder about Estonian conference 2018


In about a month, we are having a conference in Estonia, and I expect it to be building on the very profound and useful teachings we got last year about the primal self.


The topic is how you can come to feel at peace with being on earth, and I think all spiritually interested people have issues with being on such a dense and difficult planet. I am sure the mastes will have profound dictations to give us and that we will have some very fruitful discussions.


There is still time for you to join us, and if you want to come, it will be helpful for the organizers if you can sign up as soon as possible so we can plan it in the best way. I look forward to seeing you there.


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Sound files American conference 2018


We just returned from our trip to the United States and I have put the sound files for the American conference on the subscriber website.


They are in a folder named America 2018.


New answers, September 2018


I have placed a lot of new answers on the Ascended Master Answers website. You can find them on the New Answers page, starting on September 10th.

American conference online participation


The North American Ascended Masters Conference is Sold Out but You Can Still Attend Electronically

For those who missed out, the conference organizers are offering a webinar for those who would like to attend this gathering electronically in real time.

The fee is $100 for the entire weekend, payable through Paypal (go to www.newchristianitynow.com home page). In addition, please send your email address to the conference coordinators to receive conference information and linkages. 

The webinar will be in real time; Albuquerque is located in the Mountain time zone, and will be on daylight savings time during the conference. Prior to the conference, we will email you PDFs of the invocations that will be recited at each session, so you may join us in raising the Light to welcome the ascended masters. 








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