Being too harsh on yourself

Question: If you’re too harsh on yourself, self-judgment, judge too much, do you have to release self-judgment in order to go forward?


 

This answer was given by Kim Michaels at a conference in Holland.

 

Kim: I think we’re all too hard on ourselves because we’re brought up to be. Look at the image of God we’ve all grown up with, namely that God is the angry judge in the sky and, if you make a mistake, you’re going to be sent to hell forever. You’re going to be punished by eternal suffering.

A lot of people have been brought up with that image. Even if we haven’t, there is a certain collective consciousness that makes us judge ourselves very harshly when we make mistakes. When I was new on the spiritual path and even when I had found the ascended master teachings, it was sort of an extension of this. The masters were like the angry God in the sky. They weren’t angry, but they were still judgmental. You had to be perfect. You had to do the outer things just right, and there was a lot of focus in one organization I was in on doing all the outer things: wearing the right kind of clothes, not driving a red car, all of these outer things.

I have come to realize that the real challenge on the spiritual path is to accept that you are an extension of God. How do you accept that? You accept that by realizing that God loves you unconditionally. What the world tells us is that there may be a God and he may love you if you live up to certain conditions. That’s a very vicious, very aggressive energy in the world that wants you to believe this. This, of course, ties in with the theme of the conference of anti-love, because they absolutely want you to believe you have to live up to some kind of condition.

That’s why I think we judge ourselves – because we think if we are not perfect or if we don’t live up to these conditions, God is not going to love us, or whatever it is we imagine. I think the greatest challenge on the spiritual path is to actually accept unconditional love. I experienced it one time, as I’ve written about. I had an experience where I experienced God’s presence, and it still took me probably three years to process and integrate that experience. Finally one day it was like it clicked in me because the thought came to me: If God’s love is unconditional, what condition do I need to fulfill in order to be worthy of it? The answer is obvious - there can’t be any conditions you have to fulfill in order to receive unconditional love. 

There is one condition: You have to receive it. You have to accept it. And so you have to look at yourself: “What is the belief I have that prevents me from accepting what God is offering me freely at any moment?” I think, until we see that consciously and see the lie, see the fallacy of it, we’re not free of it. We’re still chasing this pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, and the rainbow just keeps moving ahead of us. We’re never going to reach it until we realize that it’s futile to even try.

 

 

Copyright © 2015 Kim Michaels

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Korea dictations transcribed

2017-06-20

I have started editing and proofreading the dictations given in Korea and will be putting them on in the coming time.

 

Check the New Dictations page to see them.

 

 

Russia sound files 2017

2017-06-14

I have uploaded the sound files from the conference in Russia to the subscriber's website.


Again, these are raw files with some silent space in the beginning.

 

Holland 2017 sound files

2017-06-05

The sound files from the Holland conference are now uploaded to the subscriber's website.

 

We received dictations from Mother Mary (2), Saint Germain (2), Presence of Love, Astrea, Jesus and Gautama. There are also some discussions and two quite long question & answer sessions with the masters.

 

Please note that these sound files are unedited, meaning there is some silence or noise at the beginning and the files are larger than normal.

 

 

 

New vigil program for Russia

2017-05-27

There is a new program for Mother Mary's 500 vigil for this Sunday, May 28th.

 

You can find the program here.

 

 

 

Korea 2017 conference sound files

2017-05-08

 

The sound files with the dictations have now been uploaded to the subscriber's website.

The files are found in a folder named KOREA2017

The files are named in the order the events took place, for example: KOR02_05032017MMary

Some numbers are missing because I have not yet uploaded the files for the Questions & Answers sessions.

 

 

 

 

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